📑Table of Contents:
- How They Met Each Other
- The Age Gap: Not a Flaw, but a Feature
- The Proposal: Private, Sweet, and a Little Gross
- Wedding Bells in Westhampton
- Married Life: Small Apartment, Big Laughs
- Supporting Each Other, Publicly and Privately
- Two Comedians, One Real Love
- What Makes Them Work
- Not Just Another Bravo Romance
- Final Thoughts
Hannah Berner isn’t just known for her sharp jokes and podcast wit. Behind the mic, behind the spotlight, she’s found something solid. That something is Des Bishop—a fellow comic, a deep thinker, and now Hannah Berner’s husband.
Their relationship is unexpected, refreshingly honest, and deeply rooted in real connection. It’s also proof that timing, trust, and a good sense of humor can carry you far.
How They Met Each Other
Their love story began in the digital age—on Instagram.
In the summer of 2020, while Hannah vacationed in Long Island, Des Bishop messaged her. It wasn’t sleazy, forced, or direct, but confident and light. He asked her out for coffee. She said yes.
That first date lasted four hours.
They clicked fast, kept talking. They laughed, reflected, and dove into big conversations. He was 15 years older. But instead of distance, that gap became glue. They didn’t waste time. Because of the pandemic, they had nowhere else to be. So they stayed present with each other.
The Age Gap: Not a Flaw, but a Feature
Des is nearly 50. Hannah is in her early 30s. And while social media often debates age gaps, this couple isn’t concerned.
Hannah once joked that she married a “zaddy.” But behind the bit was the truth. Des brought calm. He brought a life perspective. He had done therapy and had lived. And most of all, he listened.
That maturity steadied Hannah. She, in turn, brought energy, joy, and fresh ambition into his life. She called it “the most emotionally mature relationship” she’s ever had. There was no game-playing. No ego battles. Just mutual respect.
The Proposal: Private, Sweet, and a Little Gross
Des proposed on Valentine’s Day, 2021. It wasn’t staged for Instagram. There was no drone, no flash mob.
Instead, it happened in bed.
Hannah was still wearing her Invisalign. She said she had morning breath. But Des didn’t care. He sang a little tune, got down beside her, and popped the question. She said yes, without needing a glam squad.
The moment was theirs. Raw. Slightly awkward. Completely them.
Wedding Bells in Westhampton
On May 13, 2022, Hannah and Des tied the knot in a beachfront ceremony in Westhampton, New York. The guest list was intimate—close friends, family, and a few Summer House cast members.
It wasn’t a Bravo spectacle, nor was it about being seen. It was about sealing a bond that already felt tested and true.
Hannah wore a minimalist gown. Des kept it simple, too. But the joy? Loud and clear.
Married Life: Small Apartment, Big Laughs
They didn’t move into a mansion after the wedding. They live in a one-bedroom apartment in New York City.
Yes, it gets tight. And yes, they’ve fought over laundry, space, and noise. But they laugh through it. They both admit they’re messy. They both agree: the relationship works because they make room for each other, even when there’s no room.
Hannah even joked in an interview that Lactaid saved their marriage. Des is lactose intolerant. She loves cheese. And in a tight apartment, lactose farts can spark wars.
But again—laughter wins.
Supporting Each Other, Publicly and Privately
Des isn’t just Hannah’s husband. He’s her cheerleader.
He travels with her on tour when he can. He watches her sets and hypes her Netflix special, “We Ride at Dawn,” every chance he gets. On Reddit, fans often praise Des for his constant, low-key support. He never tries to outshine her. He lifts her.
Meanwhile, Hannah also boosts Des’s career. She celebrates his comedy roots in Ireland, his early TV success, and his brilliant storytelling. They don’t compete—they collaborate.
They even co-host a podcast together called Berner Phone. It’s funny, chaotic, and vulnerable, just like real marriage.
Two Comedians, One Real Love
Comedy can be lonely. It can be a grind. But sharing that world makes the highs higher, and the low points bearable.
They understand each other’s anxiety, know that they need silence after shows, and respect the hustle. They also know when to turn the jokes off and be serious. That balance keeps their relationship grounded.
Not every moment is funny. But every moment matters.
What Makes Them Work
Several things make this marriage thrive:
- Communication: They talk through everything.
- Humor: They laugh, even when things get tense.
- Boundaries: They respect space—even in a small apartment.
- Maturity: They’ve both done the self-work. They meet as full people, not half-empty ones.
They also let each other grow. Let’s be loud, weird, and wild. Hannah lets Des be thoughtful, quiet, and occasionally cranky. There’s no pressure to perform at home. They show up as themselves.
Not Just Another Bravo Romance
Hannah’s past Summer House relationship imploded under the cameras. This one? It was built off-screen. That made all the difference.
She’s called Des her “soulmate,” but not in a cheesy way. In a real way. Because when everything else fades—fame, followers, likes—they still have each other.
Final Thoughts
Hannah Berner and Des Bishop didn’t meet under ideal conditions. They met in a pandemic, and had an age gap. They had different backgrounds. But they found common ground. They built something real.
And through it all—tiny apartments, lactose intolerance, late-night gigs—they’ve kept it honest and kept it funny.
That’s not just a good marriage. That’s a great one.
